"I keep looking forward." – Emily’s story of diagnosis and resilience

Emily lives with multiple health conditions and began experiencing symptoms of Ulcerative Colitis as a child. After years of misdiagnosis, she shares her journey through childhood illness, delayed diagnosis, and adulthood with multiple chronic conditions, highlighting not only the physical challenges she has faced, but also the resilience and empathy she has developed along the way.

I was just nine years old when I first experienced symptoms of colitis. I was bleeding when I went to the toilet, and although I knew where it was coming from, every time I visited the GP I was told it was just my period. For years throughout my childhood and teenage life, I was passed back and forth between doctors while I tried to find answers.

Eventually, my symptoms were taken seriously, and I was referred to a specialist in London for further investigations, where I was finally diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis.

There was relief in finally having an explanation, but I was still extremely unwell. On the train home with my mum, we received a phone call from the hospital to say my iron levels were dangerously low and that I needed to return as an emergency for treatment. I was told I was so anaemic that I was lucky not to have lost my life. By this point, I had started to lose my hair and was incredibly underweight.

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As an adult, although I’ve been on treatment, my condition has continued to bring challenges over the years, particularly when it comes to employment.

I’ve had several jobs because, despite explaining my illness, many workplaces struggle to understand that I may need more time off sick or longer in the toilet than other people. It’s difficult when something completely out of my control, such as flare-ups, affects my career. I’ve always been a hugely caring person, and because of my own health journey, I’d love to one day use my empathy and knowledge to work in the NHS and help other people.

More recently, in my early thirties, I’ve been diagnosed with liver sclerosis and an enlarged spleen, alongside my Colitis and arthritis. It’s a lot to take in and it does impact how I feel day to day. The mental health side effects of living with a chronic illness can definitely take their toll and I’ve experienced brain fog, confusion and panic attacks over the years.

But even with all of this, I try to keep looking forward. I focus on the small things that bring me joy, going shopping, going to the cinema, and spending time with my incredibly supportive fiancé and family. Those moments remind me that there is still so much to enjoy.

Travelling has always been my passion, and although it might look a little different for me now, with a walking stick and a slower pace, I’m excited to start exploring again. I’m especially looking forward to future trips to the Disney parks!

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