Someone I'm in a relationship with

If you're in a relationship with someone living with Crohn's or Colitis, you might feel unsure how you can best help them. Whether you're looking for support on managing their condition, approaching intimacy, starting a family or simply living life together, our resources can help you.

Hear from others supporting a loved one with Crohn's or Colitis


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Personally, what I find the hardest is that she's having to deal with it all. I find it hard that I can't really do anything to help. I can't cure it and when she's ill I can't make her feel better. I think that's what I find the hardest - you feel pretty useless.


Sex and relationships

Everyone has their own experiences of how Crohn's Disease or Ulcerative Colitis affects, or does not affect, sex and relationships. Our sex and relationships information helps you think and talk about sex, intimacy and relationships when one partner lives with Crohn's or Colitis.

We also have a blog on intimate relationships with some practical tips and links to other support.


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The physical changes caused by Crohn’s or Colitis can affect the way you or your partner feels about their body.



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My husband has grown to be fully understanding and I take time to rest if I need it.

He knows how to look out for signs of a flare, and I honestly couldn’t have gotten through this last year without him.


Virtual Social Events

Want to meet people living with Crohn's or Colitis, or supporting those who do? We'd love to see you at one of our virtual social events!

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Join our growing network of friendly, passionate volunteers!


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Helpline Service

We know it can be difficult to live with, or support someone living with Crohn’s or Colitis. But we’re with you. We can give you the right information and support at the right time.

We’re here for everyone.

How Can We Help?

  • We can help you understand Crohn’s and Colitis
  • Listen and talk about living with IBD
  • Help you connect with others in the Crohn’s and Colitis community
  • Give you contact details of specialist organisations
  • We can support you to live well with Crohn’s or Colitis and provide up-to-date, evidence-based information

Please be aware we’re not medically or legally trained. We cannot provide detailed financial or benefits advice or specialist emotional support.

Please contact us via telephone, email or LiveChat - 10am to 3pm, Monday to Friday (except English bank holidays).

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If you need specific medical advice about your condition, your GP or IBD team will be best placed to help.

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