Like Leanne says, everyone has good days and bad days. It’s tempting (and pretty normal) to distract yourself with other things. Sometimes these might not be that great for you – like drinking, smoking or vaping, going out all the time, or maybe not going out at all. You know what is normal for you, but if you’re feeling and acting differently it could be a sign that something is not quite right.
And if the bad days are happening more often than not, then it’s time to do something about it.
Everyone has different ways of coping with stress. What works for you? Here are some things that could help you cope:
Do what you like to do
It might be getting creative, watching films, computer games or keeping fit. Whatever it is that makes you feel more like yourself and that you get a buzz from.
Chill
Some people find that taking time out to do something relaxing helps them de-stress. That might be full on meditation or just listening to music. Maybe you could play an online game. Even just going out and seeing a friend can help take your mind off things.
Have a rest
Sleeping well is a big part of feeling well, getting a good night’s sleep could help lift your mood.
Know yourself
Think about what it is you can and can’t control about your life and your condition. Working on the things you can change might lift your spirits.
Ask for support
It’s OK to need support from others – we all do. It can be tricky, but getting things off your chest and talking to your family, friends or your IBD team can be a massive help.
Get connected
It can also be useful to connect up with other young people who have Crohn’s or Colitis. They are likely to understand what you’re going through.
Check out CICRA’s E-Pal scheme, they can help connect you with other young people with Crohn’s or Colitis.
You could ask your team if they can put you in touch with someone who’s been through transition or see How we can help you for other ways to make connections.
We have some short videos on our website where other young people talk about how they cope with transition, and Crohn’s and Colitis in general: crohnsandcolitis.org.uk/young-person
Who can I talk to?
It’s not always easy talking about your feelings, but it can actually be pretty powerful.
Just finding someone you trust to confide in can be a starting point.
If you feel like you need a bit more than that, talking therapies like cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) can be really helpful for some people with Crohn’s or Colitis. You can ask your team or GP to refer you. If you’re at college or university, you may be able to access support through them. Or look at ways of getting support through The Mix and Young Minds, organisations aimed at young people. Read our information on mental health and wellbeing for more details, or see How we can help you.