Sex and relationships
You may be worried about how surgery will affect your sex life. Your surgical team can give you specific advice about when they think it’s safe for you to have sex after surgery. Going back to sexual activity may mean exploring other ways of being intimate or new positions. It can be difficult to talk about sex, but being open about your needs and concerns can help.
For some men, having surgery may lead to difficulties with erections. This may resolve itself, but if not, speak to your IBD team, GP or visit a sexual health clinic for ways to help.
Our Sex and relationships information has more on how surgery may affect sex and suggests other ways you could be intimate with a partner.
Fertility and pregnancy
Some types of surgery for Colitis can affect fertility, so if you’re thinking of having children it’s important to let your surgical team know. For some people, it may be possible to delay surgery until they have completed their family. For other people, they may be able to have keyhole surgery. The risk of fertility problems is lower with this type of surgery.
You should still use contraception if you do not want to get pregnant, or do not want to make someone pregnant after surgery.
People with male reproductive organs
After having pouch surgery, you may have problems getting or keeping an erection. Many people can treat this with a medicine called sildenafil (Viagra). After pouch surgery, some people develop a rare complication called retrograde ejaculation. This is when the semen goes back towards the bladder instead of out the penis. The risk of this is lower after having keyhole surgery.
People with female reproductive organs
Having surgery for Colitis can make it more difficult to get pregnant. It’s thought that surgery in your tummy can cause scarring around the fallopian tubes and ovaries. This leads to fertility issues.
Having pouch surgery can increase your risk of fertility problems, but this risk may be lower in people who have had keyhole surgery. Up to 5 in 10 women have difficulty getting pregnant naturally after pouch surgery. Of those women that become pregnant after pouch surgery, around 3 in 10 become pregnant after using in vitro fertilisation (IVF) treatment. Your chances of getting pregnant after using fertility treatments are similar to people using fertility treatments who do not have Colitis.
If you do become pregnant, either before or after surgery, your doctors will advise you on what options are safest for you and your baby. For example:
- If you have a stoma, it’s still possible to deliver vaginally, but you may need a caesarean section if any complications arise.
- Vaginal deliveries are not advised if you have active disease in the rectum.
- If you’ve had pouch surgery, you will be advised to have a caesarean section. Vaginal delivery is possible, but it may increase your risk of incontinence.
Any surgery in the tummy, including a caesarean section, or surgery for your Colitis, can lead to scar tissue forming, called adhesions. Adhesions can make any future surgery a bit more complicated. Your surgeon should be able to give you further advice on this.
You may find it helpful to read our information on Reproductive health, Pregnancy and birth, and on postnatal care and breastfeeding.
Travelling
Having surgery shouldn’t stop you travelling. You may be advised not to fly in the first few weeks after surgery. Blood clots are more likely to develop when you sit still for a long time – like on long-haul flights. And this risk is higher if you’ve had surgery recently. Ask your surgical team if they have any specific advice for you about travelling. If you have a stoma, you’ll have to consider packing your supplies. Read more about travelling with Colitis in our information on travelling.
Insurance
When declaring your medical conditions, insurance companies will normally ask you if you’ve had surgery because of your Colitis. The cost quoted to you may be affected if you are waiting for surgery, or recently had surgery. Our information on insurance gives more details about this.
Exercise and physical activity
In the long term, having surgery should not affect how you exercise. If surgery helps your symptoms, it may mean you can be more active. If you have a stoma, you may have to make sure you have spare bags and other supplies with you.
Having surgery in the tummy area, especially stoma surgery, can put you at higher risk of getting a hernia. A hernia happens when there’s some weakness in the muscle wall, so internal organs, such as the bowel, can push through. You can reduce your risk of getting a hernia by working on your core strength and practising tummy exercises. Some people also find wearing support underwear can help. Speak to your surgical team about what could help you.
There is more on how you can exercise with Colitis in our Being active with Crohn’s or Colitis information. Colostomy UK and the Ileostomy and Internal Pouch Association also have information on exercising after surgery.
Children and young people
Much of the information here will apply to children as well. However, there are some things to be aware of:
- Surgery on children and young people often takes place in specialist hospitals. This may mean you have to travel further for the surgery.
- Children cannot consent to treatment until they are 16 years old.
- The growth and development of a child or young person will be important in deciding if surgery is suitable for them.
- Children and young people may be given some specific instructions before surgery. For example, avoiding vaccinations in the few weeks before surgery.
CICRA has more information on surgery in children with Colitis.